From Brokenness to Alignment: My Journey to Infinite You

By Harold Hoenow

San Antonio is more than the city where I live — it’s the soil I grew out of. The streets, the neighborhoods, the people, the culture… they shaped me long before I ever understood what purpose meant. I grew up here, in a home that carried more struggle than stability, more survival than guidance. Like many kids raised in broken homes, I learned early how to navigate chaos, how to adapt, how to keep moving even when nothing felt steady beneath my feet.

But those early years also planted something deeper — a sensitivity, a hunger for meaning, a desire to understand why we’re here and what we’re meant to become. I didn’t have the language for it then. All I knew was that something inside me was searching.

The Descent

My teenage years and early adulthood took me down a path I never imagined I’d walk. I spent 7 years addicted to heroin — pain, numbness, and disconnection was my world. Addiction doesn’t just take over your life; it rewires your sense of self. It convinces you that you’re broken beyond repair, that your story is already written, that you’re too far gone to ever come back.

But even in the darkest moments, something in me refused to die. A spark. A whisper. A quiet knowing that this wasn’t the end of my story.

In 2005, at 28 years old, I got clean. It wasn’t easy. It wasn’t pretty. But it was the moment everything began to shift. Recovery wasn’t just about removing the substance — it was about rebuilding a life, a self, a future.

Becoming a Father

Two years later, my first daughter was born. That moment changed everything. Holding her in my arms, I felt something I had never felt before — a sense of responsibility, yes, but also a sense of possibility. She became my anchor, my mirror, my reminder that life could be rebuilt with intention, love, and presence.

Becoming a father didn’t erase my past, but it gave it meaning. It showed me that transformation is real, that healing is possible, and that purpose often emerges from the places we once tried to escape.

The Awakening at 33

At 33, I experienced what I can only describe as a spiritual awakening — a moment of clarity that cracked my life open. It wasn’t dramatic or mystical in the way movies portray it. It was quiet, internal, and undeniable.

I began to see patterns. Cycles. Synchronicities. I started to understand my life not as a series of random events, but as a guided journey — one that had been preparing me for something larger than myself.

I realized that everything I had survived wasn’t a detour. It was training.

The broken home. The addiction. The recovery. The fatherhood. The awakening.

All of it was shaping me into someone who could help others navigate their own transformation.

The Birth of Infinite You

Infinite You didn’t come to me as a business idea. It came as a calling.

I wanted to create something that blended:

ancient wisdom

modern practices

transformational events

and the mythic story that lives inside every human being

I wanted to build a space where people could remember who they are, why they’re here, and what they’re capable of becoming.

Infinite You became the container for that vision — a bridge between the cosmic and the practical, the personal and the collective, the inner journey and the real‑world impact.

Why San Antonio Matters

This city raised me. It challenged me. It broke me open. And it gave me the community that helped me rebuild myself.

San Antonio is woven into my story, and Infinite You is my way of giving something back — something rooted in healing, alignment, and purpose. I want people here to feel seen, supported, and empowered. I want them to know that transformation is possible no matter where you start.

Where the Journey Leads Now

Today, I’m a father, a husband, a founder, a storyteller, and a steward of a movement that continues to evolve. Infinite You is not just a brand — it’s a living expression of everything I’ve learned, everything I’ve survived, and everything I’m committed to building for the future.

My story isn’t perfect. It’s not polished. But it’s real. And if there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s that real stories are the ones that change lives.

If my journey can help even one person believe in their own transformation, then every step — even the hardest ones — was worth it.